Life After Cancer

Happy Birthday: 33 Quotes to Live By From Women Who Inspire Me

Learning to Thrive After Cancer

Another trip around the sun is truly a gift. After facing cancer, I will never complain about growing old but that doesn't keep from from a little Botox haha. To celebrate another year on this earth I asked 33 women who inspire me to share a quote that they love. I hope these words guide me for many years to come.

I also hope you check out each of these ladies that bring humor, joy, love, and support to my life.

1. "Cancer may take my breasts and my hair but I will keep my lipstick and heels. I will find a way to feel beautiful in spite of my loss!" - Anna Crollman

2. “Your time is your only true inventory. Spend it wisely.” Melissa Berry Cancer Fashionista@cancerfashionista

3. “The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you have to put up with the rain.”  Erica Wiseman @thepetiteredhead

4. "Never allow fear to keep you from going after your dreams. You automatically fail when you decide not to try, so why not bet on yourself? You are wildly capable and can do anything you put your mind to." Nella @naturallynella

5. "It's OK and important to say NO." Jas McDonald @jasmcdonald

6. "Live life for today, because you never know what tomorrow will bring." Dana Donofree @daynadono | AnaOno Intimates

7. "There is no controlling life.Try corralling a lightning bolt, containing a tornado. Dam a stream and it will create a new channel. Resist, and the tide will sweep you off your feet. Allow, and grace will carry you to higher ground. The only safety lies in letting it all in –the wild and the weak; fear, fantasies, failures and success. When loss rips off the doors of the heart, or sadness veils your vision with despair, practice becomes simply bearing the truth. In the choice to let go of your known way of being, the whole world is revealed to your new eyes. Denise Sorin AKA Mom

8. "Over the years (and definitely through this year) I have learned the power in standing firm. Standing firm no matter what life throws your way. Stay rooted in your beliefs and let nothing shake you.” Chelsea @afashionablebeliever | Charley Madelyn Boutique | A Fashionable Believer

9. "After being diagnosed with an aggressive stage 3 breast cancer at 34 years old, I learned that resilience doesn't solely rely on the actions or mentality of one person. Instead, resilience is a reflection of your community, your support system. That is how we get through life - by supporting each other through the challenges and celebrating what we overcome. Life is not a giant competition, it's meant to be lived - together." Jen Hoverstad @Jenhoverstad

10. Billy Joel’s I’ve Loved These Days always reminds me to live in the moment and appreciate life as it is today: “But I loved these days. So before we end then begin, we’ll drink a toast to how it’s been, a few more hours to complete, a few more times that I can say that I’ve loved these days.” Joanna Spruill @mytriplepositivelife

11. "If you're going through hell, keep going" Jessie @jadst94

12. "A woman is like a teabag-you never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water" Sarah Woodson @sgwoodson

13. "For what it’s worth... it’s never too late, or in my case too early, to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit. Start whenever you want. You can change or stay the same. There are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you’ve never felt before. I hope you meet people who have a different point of view. I hope you live a life you’re proud of, and if you’re not, I hope you have the courage to start over again.” Caralyn Mirand @caralynmirand | CaralynMirand

14. "Peace is the result of retraining your mind to process life as it is, rather than as it should be”. I think we often suck the joy out of life by only focusing on the things we should have as opposed to appreciating what we actually have in this moment. It’s much easier said than time, but this time has reminded me of what is most precious and I’m recommitted to loving the life I’ve been blessed with as I evolve and grow." Shiquita @unconventionalsouthernbelle | The Unconventional Southern Belle, LLC

15. "Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” Stephanie Seban @stephanie_seban | Thrive Gang

16. "We all have this inner power inside us, unlimited, abundant power that we each have access to if we open ourselves up to it. Challenging times, much like cancer can be an opportunity to help us tap into it. We are capable of being and handling so much more than we give ourselves credit for. Never stop believing in yourself.” Brittney@brittneybeadle

17. "If the plan doesn’t work, change the plan but never the goal” Valerie @theminimama

18. "At the end of the day, my 'why' is my daughter. As a mother; as a woman; as a citizen - I feel so strongly - in the deepest part of my soul - that I have a responsibility to lead her by example. It's not enough for her to know that I will fight for her; I want her to SEE what that looks like. I want her to see this is about more than being a part of a trend, I want to facilitate a lasting change.” Tiffany Turner Moon @TiffanyTurnerMoon | Tiffany Turner Moon

19. "For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 This verse provides comfort to me because it’s Gods plan for all of us. It reminds me that the maker of the heaven and earths has my life in His hands. There’s nothing to fear." Megh @Lyme_with_me

20. "The biggest lie that other people will tell you is that your feelings don't matter. When you're feeling something, really feel it. Acknowledge it. Sit with it. Find a way to understand it. Honoring your feelings is the best way to learn and stay true to what's important to you. Your feelings matter." Conner Hey Ya'll Blog | @heyyallblog

21. "Live life in progression, not perfection.’ Tracy Trellis Beauty  | @trellisbeauty

22. "Trust the next chapter because you are the author." I am currently going through a divorce; we met when we were 21 and were together for almost 14 years. This chapter of my life is closing and new chapter is beginning. Annie Spano @annie_spano | Style Collective | Becoming Fearless Podcast

23. "Find out who you are and do it on purpose”. Erica McCready @istyleDIY | I Style DIY

24. "I live by the golden rule- treat others as you would like to be treated. We could all spread more kindness." Jessica @frappsandfrills 

25. "I have come to realize that life is very similar to a puzzle, there are so many pieces and the challenging part is having the patience to place them all together, because connecting these pieces may seem very cumbersome and overwhelming, but if we channel the patience, eventually we will notice that all the pieces will come together to create a beautiful piece of art, and we will see why some pieces fit and others did not. We will learn not only how each piece fits together but why it fits, and hence will come to appreciate the whole journey." Salyndria Gregory @missurvivor

26. “You don’t grow when you’re comfortable” Olivia Faith @oliviafaithofficial

27. “ Be that kind soul that makes everybody feel like somebody “ Allison Vrhovac @allisonvrhovac

28. "Be yourself, everyone else is already taken." Kerry Miller @icedteaandtopknots

29. One of my favorite quotes that I have used as a guiding star in my life is by Eleanor Roosevelt: “Do one thing every day that scares you.” It’s simple, but a reminder that you should always push yourself to try new things - especially if those things scare you. I spent so many years being too scared to do simple things and wasted countless opportunities. Stop saying no, and spend more time saying yes to things you always wanted to experience. When you look back at your life, you’ll want to remember all the experiences you had, not the things you always wished you did. Life is too short to not live it to the fullest. Amy Jones @heyamymegan

30. "Let your faith be bigger than your fear.” Alexa Harvey @unfilteredbeautync | Unfiltered Beauty

31. "I’ve learned that success in life isn’t measured by the number of accomplishments, but way you treat the people who surround you. I want to leave a legacy of kindness and love.” - Christin King @ck.creations | CK Creations Design

32. "There’s no such thing as a short cut, because if it was the right thing to do, it would just be the way.” Krystal Ayling @crazycarymom

32. "There’s no such thing as a short cut, because if it was the right thing to do, it would just be the way.” Krystal Ayling @crazycarymom

33. "There’s beauty in the breakdown” it reminds me of you because you are always inspiring not only myself but everyone who sees your story that there is beauty in chaos, in mishaps, & in the little things in life Alicia  @thepeashykeen

Bonus

34. "You’re not in control of what life throws at you, you are in control of the fight" Courtney @np.courtney| Blog

35.  "Success isn't about how much money you make, it's about the difference you make in people's lives"--Michelle Obama. This is a quote that really resonates with me - the drive, my passion for what I do in my career comes from the potential I have to make a difference in people's lives. That. - for me - is the most rewarding gift of all. Meenah Patel Preston Dental Loft

1 Comment

    Meli Balleste

    July 28, 2020Reply

    Love the quotes. Happy Birthday

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